The other day I was sitting in a café and I heard a group of teenagers talking. There were three girls talking about boys, clothes and other girls over juice.
On first glance, it was a nice scene.
It wasn’t until my curiosity made me listen in a little more. It became apparent that one was trying her hardest to fit in and impress the others – looking a little awkward and notreally enjoying herself.
It prompted me to think about my four-year-old daughter and what’s in store for her in years to come.
I think we’ve all felt a little awkward at one time of another and just wanted to fit in, like the girl I was observing, and it’s not until you’re older and wiser – that you realise that actually just yourself is the best way to be.
It made me think about all the other things I wished I knew when I was younger.
And here’s my top ten….
- Being different isn’t a bad thing
- If you don’t agree with someone, don’t be afraid to say so (respectfully)
- Stand up to bullies – if they are picking on you or someone else
- You will make mistakes and that’s okay
- Confidence in a woman doesn’t mean you’re bossy
- Saying sorry first is not a sign of weakness
- You can’t control what others think about you
- Real life is always better than the online one
- You don’t have to be the best, you just need to try
- Don’t let the sun go down on an argument
And you’re never too old to hug or want your parents!
What do you wish you knew when you were a child?
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